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Cousins meet in
person for the first time.
January 2001, by Rhea Bottler
(Rhea Bottler, descended
from Sonia Bottler, submits this first person article.)
After arriving in Israel I spoke
with both Lilian and Ella Novak (descended from Leizer Majew)
on the telephone before actually meeting with them in Tel Aviv.
Mother and daughter are both so friendly and warm that I immediately
felt like I had known them always. That was my feeling last year
when I spoke with Lilian and Ella then. Since we actually did
not meet the last time I was in Israel, I was thrilled to be
able to meet both women this trip.
Lilian and I described ourselves
to each other and made plans to meet in front of the municipal
building in Tel Aviv. Lilian spotted me before I spotted her
and we greeted each other with a big, big hug. Lilian reminds
me somewhat of my Aunt Beattie Solomons. My aunt would be Lilian's
late father's first cousin. That was fun for me to see this resemblance.
We walked and talked and talked and walked and then found an
outdoor cafe to sit and chat some more. Ella, Lilian's beautiful
and charming daughter, took time out of her work schedule to
join us.
We talked about our families and
drew a family tree on a scrap piece of paper so that we could
follow ourselves. We certainly were sorry that we did not have
our authentic family tree printout with us and we hoped we were
drawing the right branches. As far as we could figure out Lilian's
grandfather Leizer Majew and my Bubbie Sonia Bottler are sister
and brother which would make her late father [Mottle/Max Majew]
and my late father [Saul Bottler] first cousins and us second
cousins. We thought it awesome that we were there in Israel together.
We talked about how much our fathers would have liked to have
met. Lilian spoke of her father having expressed his sadness
that the Mayoff family name would not be continued because he
had daughters who would marry and take their husbands' names.
She was certain he would be thrilled to have met me and to know
that there are so many Mayoffs around the world. I remember how
devoted my father was to the Mayoff clan and I believe he would
have loved to be there meeting his cousin's family. We felt our
fathers' presence as well as our grandparents' and great-grandparents'.
Ella of course remembers her grandfather and agreed with her
mom that he would be more than pleased to know of the work that
has been done on the family tree and how the family has been
reunited.
Lilian and I were able to meet once
again and we enjoyed sharing a wonderfully delicious lunch at
a restaurant overlooking the beach in TelAviv. We talked more
and more and got to know each other. Lilian is a gentle, kind
soul. Very generous in spirit. She is a loving mother and a devoted
wife and a very interested Mayoff cousin. We saw the sun setting
behind the horizon of the beach. It was actually a magnificent
sunset that we shared which thrilled me as I am a sunset and
a sunrise person...both speak to my directly to my soul. When
we said our goodbyes we promised to keep in touch.
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